"Life is difficult," M. Scott Peck makes eminently clear in his monumental best-seller,
The Road Less Traveled. These are the book's opening words and its guiding premise. Life
is a series of emotional and spiritual challenges, Dr. Peck assures us, and enlightened
discipline-not more money-is our basic tool for coping with its problems and achieving
our happiness and fulfillment.
The bottom line is that we're all dealt a hand of cards at birth. Our success in life is
based on how we play those cards, not on the number of chips we're given to play them.
Because I'm an inheritor myself, with many friends and acquaintances-including most of
my clients-who are inheritors as well, I have collected a fair amount of firsthand knowledge
about the benefits and pitfalls of wealth, its bounties, its perils, and its luxuries, and the
silken threads of tyranny those seductive luxuries can weave. What's more, I've discovered
there are few resources for people who have experienced the dark side of wealth. Their problems
are invisible to most of the professional community, their challenges unacknowledged by society
at large, their pains and difficulties untended by the normal systems that comfort those who are
born in other circumstances. This is curious because our affluent society is turning people over
to this emotional limbo with incredible speed and abandoning them in this place where fulfillment
is said to be abundant yet is almost impossible to find.
I grew up in an environment of affluence, so I have an intimate, firsthand knowledge of the
issues explored in this book. Again, though they might seem ludicrous to some, I assure you the
challenges are quite real and can be painful to inheritors, for whom I bear much compassion and
admiration for confronting their endemic challenges.
Approaching the meridian of my life,
I contemplated my own hellish journey to the dark side and back,
accepting that the trip down had been entirely of my own making,
with Satan, no doubt, right there, cheering me on.
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